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Hello all. I am suffering from Premature Ejaculation since I started masterbating at the age of 13. I have been going thru literature about sex and enlightenment and it is beginning to strike me now that for someone with this condition there are certain levels of consciousness that one is never able to achieve. Someone who can enjoy love making to the last drop so to say will gain so much out of it, from anti-depression to melting with the partner and transcendence. I have not read it anywhere the way I am putting it here. Please share your thoughts about this. I am not looking for advice about my condition on this thread.

Hey all! I am in my late 20's and a very active male. I am new to Taoism, slowly introducing myself to the teachings and practices. I cam across Taoism researching about ways to battle my "curse" of Premature Ejaculation. I have had this issue since the first day I started pleasuring myself. I have read some of Chia's books. They talk about circulating the energy thru the Microcosmic Orbit… then The Cool Draw etc. What I have been finding is that I do not feel any energy EVER cooking on the base of my spine. I just don't get it! I am not hesitant to consider the possibility of me doing it all wrong. But I am also thinking if there are energy/emotional blockages that could hinder one's ability to perform these exercises. I would like to reach the level of a Multi-orgasmic man and use my energy to heal myself. I do not like the idea of ejaculating actually never did. I like to stay active and full of energy all the time. Please guide me thru. A bit more about myself. I have tried Acupuncture + TCM herbs… to no avail. Right now… focusing on raising my ... Serotonin, Testosterone, Magnesium, Calcium levels and lowering Histamine levels. I will be taking a Herbal Tincture for my Condition very soon.