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Fine words and an insinuating appearance are seldom associated with true virtue.

Sounds like the goings-on in the world of horse-racing.... :D

 

 

 

 

As for the OP...

 

...such kinds of exchanges in the martial sphere have been the norm since days of old, and i'm thinking it wont be any different anytime soon. If those who teach or come to this place to share information react sensitively to criticisms in such a manner as to cause a massive withdrawal just because of snide remarks and such, then their tenacity and magnanimity (which is a trademark of true masters btw) need to be cemented even more, in my opinion. In the world of business and politics, what sets leaders and others apart, among other traits, is the one where they have the courage to push on despite being assailed by insurmountable criticisms and challenges leveled at them every single day, either from within the organization or from rivals. One would imagine that in the martial and spiritual circles there would not be any significant difference. Wimpy teachers cry when it gets too much, and react like woosies when their actions are questioned, which is good, because i, for one, would know not to associate with such undignified individuals. And these kinds of reactive responses tend to be quite the norm where fees (handouts) are involved. Teachers who teach for free (not dependent on handouts) never seem to get bothered by such things, which is a good point to mull over. These rare individuals have their own enterprising quality which helps them to thrive hence not requiring students' money. Of course, there are those who come here and argue that free teachings are not valued... wanna bet? A real teacher with the oomph factor will never open the teachings to the masses. They are often not easily accessible, and when they are found, a student will have to undergo a number of 'tests' before they even get past the outer sanctum. Then its probably years of basic practices before the higher teachings are imparted. Nowadays, such virtuous principles are completely abandoned by modern so-called teachers who are more commercially-minded. Not saying its wrong to be this way, but as with anything, there is a price to be paid.

 

If i was interested to cultivate some form of martial arts, i would seek out 'hidden' masters - i may not get accepted, but if i am genuine, then i believe when i do find one, he or she will be genuine as well.

 

The OP mentioned something about being shot in the foot. The way i see it, those teachers who come here to recruit students or use the forum as a marketing ground are the ones who have shot themselves in the foot, and when the going got tough, they cry like sissies and threaten to leave because of being overly questioned or criticized. Imo, no loss to anyone.

 

One would imagine that Eagles are never encumbered by the crumbs which sparrows fight over their whole lives.

 

Apologies for the rant! :)

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I agree, up to a point.

You are 100% spot on, but there is also the other side of the coin to consider. Anyone who has been in the loop for a while knows that the internal arts, spiritual arts, and martial arts do have some outright scam artists or mis-informed "teachers" teaching dangerous or harmful practices, having inappropriate conduct with students or children and other issues.

It is our responsibility as brothers and sisters on the path to do our part to help others avoid damaging their bodies or minds and wasting precious time, energy, and money. Some people of course, will not listen and must learn the hard way. But, for our own peace of mind, and personal conduct and karma we our bound to speak out. We can never know how many people steered clear of a charlatan or harmful path but we can be sure that if we remain silent we will help nobody.

I have no idea what your talking about in regards to Master Lomax but whatever it is, I hope all involved learn from it and move on. We are lucky to have him and others share with us on this site.

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Sounds like the goings-on in the world of horse-racing.... :D

 

It's actually a Confucius quote showing that such pleas haven't worked for more than 2500 years.

 

What works in the world of horse-racing is to say: who wins the next race? ^_^

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One thing I've noticed in the past was that the people who troll on the real teachers then try to make a huge fuss and scene when they get accused for trolling, even though a second before they were unjustly accusing someone else of being corrupt. For some reason, there seemed to be some fear of these people being offended and leaving even though they seemed to just come here for drama, and there's 10 more waiting to come on board. They would make a big noise and a few others enjoying the drama might come to their side, and they wouldn't get dealt with appropriately.

 

I've made some effort to assume a responsibility of helping teachers with accusations levied against them by responding to the accusations for them. Hopefully, this way they don't have to waste their valuable time defending themselves against people who have nothing but time to accuse them and keep the issue going. However, maybe we should have a team of vigilante members or something who will step in when this stuff happens, so that knowledgeable members don't have spend all their time defending themselves. The mods can't really do this because they need to stay impartial.

 

Not that there shouldn't be questions put to teachers, but when things just get outright baseless and unreasonable, it's usually pretty easy to turn the discussion around if someone is willing to step in for the teacher to keep the interactions on point.

 

edit: I'm pretty sure this has worked in the past at least for some time when an experienced person ended up with their back against the wall due to now published accusations which they need to respond to. If they had to spend all their time responding to these accusations, they surely would have felt their time was better spent elsewhere.

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Whenever I see a thread that is pit for trolls i simply ignore it (literally, i put a ton of people on "Ignore Posts")....despite the fact that i am always tempted to post in them even though i know it will not help and just give the trolls more fuel to feed on. Its just like emptiness meditation....observe your thoughts but don't become entangled with them.

 

Call it the GongFu of the Taobums (:)). If trolls are skillful at ramping up other peoples emotions and inciting anger then as practitioners we must choose to be more "skillful" in dealing with such things.

 

My 2 cents, Peace

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This stage can be rough and tumble..a proving ground

Or it could be a soapbox to sing out platitudes

Best it would be for the author of a thread to guide it.

Some have learned to do that well , and they set a standard.

It isn't easy to have the self control and clarity of purpose to do so.

Others just want to drop in here and there, and make a comment or two

Sometimes about tangential issues, sometimes in outright contention.

There are always competing motivations for free expression

and control of it.

Tolerance patience equinanimity flexibility etc are all good things to cultivate.

And such a venue as it is here represents opportunity for that development.

Some 'would be' teacher who hasn't yet mastered these things in himself ,

should still be considered,, but isn't really established in credentials.

 

 

 

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Whenever I see a thread that is pit for trolls i simply ignore it (literally, i put a ton of people on "Ignore Posts")....despite the fact that i am always tempted to post in them even though i know it will not help and just give the trolls more fuel to feed on. Its just like emptiness meditation....observe your thoughts but don't become entangled with them.

 

Best to avoid trollpits if you can. The second best thing to do is go and read but staying calm. The scammers and trolls are usually pretty obvious once they can't appeal to you on emotional levels.

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Thank you for all the responses! I know that making pleas and asking for every one to play nice sometimes doesn't work but it is nice to hear what other members feel and see us all on the same page. I am truly grateful for being part of this community and only want it to grow and prosper. I also agree that sometimes people need to be asked questions due to scammers and snake oil salesmen that appear, I just feel it doesn't need to go a thousand pages to due so. We can all just band together ask for a reasonable answer and if none is given abandon the thread like it was the titanic. Again my intentions where not to put any one down or accuse any one of anything. We are all human and we have the right to choose what we do and say. I hope I haven't offended any one in making this post and I hope I did not waste any ones time. Thank you for hearing me out and I wish you all a wonderful and blessed day.

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Sounds like the goings-on in the world of horse-racing.... :D

 

 

 

 

As for the OP...

 

...such kinds of exchanges in the martial sphere have been the norm since days of old, and i'm thinking it wont be any different anytime soon. If those who teach or come to this place to share information react sensitively to criticisms in such a manner as to cause a massive withdrawal just because of snide remarks and such, then their tenacity and magnanimity (which is a trademark of true masters btw) need to be cemented even more, in my opinion. In the world of business and politics, what sets leaders and others apart, among other traits, is the one where they have the courage to push on despite being assailed by insurmountable criticisms and challenges leveled at them every single day, either from within the organization or from rivals. One would imagine that in the martial and spiritual circles there would not be any significant difference. Wimpy teachers cry when it gets too much, and react like woosies when their actions are questioned, which is good, because i, for one, would know not to associate with such undignified individuals. And these kinds of reactive responses tend to be quite the norm where fees (handouts) are involved. Teachers who teach for free (not dependent on handouts) never seem to get bothered by such things, which is a good point to mull over. These rare individuals have their own enterprising quality which helps them to thrive hence not requiring students' money. Of course, there are those who come here and argue that free teachings are not valued... wanna bet? A real teacher with the oomph factor will never open the teachings to the masses. They are often not easily accessible, and when they are found, a student will have to undergo a number of 'tests' before they even get past the outer sanctum. Then its probably years of basic practices before the higher teachings are imparted. Nowadays, such virtuous principles are completely abandoned by modern so-called teachers who are more commercially-minded. Not saying its wrong to be this way, but as with anything, there is a price to be paid.

 

If i was interested to cultivate some form of martial arts, i would seek out 'hidden' masters - i may not get accepted, but if i am genuine, then i believe when i do find one, he or she will be genuine as well.

 

The OP mentioned something about being shot in the foot. The way i see it, those teachers who come here to recruit students or use the forum as a marketing ground are the ones who have shot themselves in the foot, and when the going got tough, they cry like sissies and threaten to leave because of being overly questioned or criticized. Imo, no loss to anyone.

 

One would imagine that Eagles are never encumbered by the crumbs which sparrows fight over their whole lives.

 

Apologies for the rant! :)

 

 

trademarks lmao. he who speaks.

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